tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.comments2009-11-11T09:07:59.147-05:00James, Tamara, and Andrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18043592847837359464noreply@blogger.comBlogger263125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-8767476712886075592009-11-11T09:07:59.147-05:002009-11-11T09:07:59.147-05:00I hope it was a good weekend for you. Want to say some platitudes about healing, but I won&#39;t. I know it is still terribly hard.Tobyehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08192038075681641845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-89582162197381654432009-11-11T09:05:50.498-05:002009-11-11T09:05:50.498-05:00Fall in VA. I miss IT! Your pictures bring are great! Great POST....very thoughtfull and moving!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-1298327554337241752009-11-10T00:27:33.681-05:002009-11-10T00:27:33.681-05:00i have been just getting by over here. I had to check in &amp; I&#39;m sorry for your lose. But, is it a lose? It&#39;s hard to let go, but you don&#39;t have to forget. I wish that I would have been able to take the pics you did, write down thoughts &amp; moments. It&#39;s important for you to continue even if it feels weird. You did not die with her so you have to continue on this ride we call life.<br />Hugging you!Manic Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16088648997897145149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-53635290188099014872009-11-05T12:36:08.473-05:002009-11-05T12:36:08.473-05:00Tam--I&#39;d have plenty of material, if I could just remember all the funny things he says! I tweet some of them so I don&#39;t forget.Tamarahttp://watchinggrass.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-5768874119433771912009-11-05T12:01:38.612-05:002009-11-05T12:01:38.612-05:00This should be a weekly installment on your blog...Andrewisms!!!!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-36798930361292308362009-11-05T07:56:27.972-05:002009-11-05T07:56:27.972-05:00I love kids. They are awesome. (And embarrassingly, I had to read that twice before I got it. Duh.)Tobyehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08192038075681641845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-45832263382050464602009-11-04T00:33:15.447-05:002009-11-04T00:33:15.447-05:00congrats!TeeTeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06588649796087015208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-23056141014092605532009-11-02T21:32:43.167-05:002009-11-02T21:32:43.167-05:00I really love your blog. I decided to give it an award. You can find it on my blog.<br /><br />-Sara<br />the-poet-girl.blogspot.comSarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11672828728108379232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-38644006635746135732009-10-28T09:57:59.940-04:002009-10-28T09:57:59.940-04:00I have not been online in a few days and I know that anything I say is not enough. YOUR post is great and real and yes those questions I know well! I have a great Aunt and anyone who passes in our family...well she takes pictures of everything! Depending on our grief she waits usually a year or more and then gives us the pictures of the entire experience...I mean everything! It may sound very morbid but a year from now when you look at them you will be thankful that you have them...and yes people think it is morbid but I am use to this because she has done it for everyone in our family and I never realized until I was an adult that this was not what other families usually did but now when I look back on them...well I am thankful that she did that. OK sorry I got long...and you will be in my thoughts!!!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-68850852437728460922009-10-27T03:27:45.046-04:002009-10-27T03:27:45.046-04:00My friend I will pray for peace &amp; comfort for ya&#39;ll. This is one of the hardest things in life to go through. My thoughts &amp; prayers are with you.Manic Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16088648997897145149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-6657258187111326452009-10-26T12:37:01.391-04:002009-10-26T12:37:01.391-04:00I am sorry, my internet friend, that you are having to go through this. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />DebDebbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11326484192966920116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-77834997304155135872009-10-21T17:07:23.648-04:002009-10-21T17:07:23.648-04:00I&#39;m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11672828728108379232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-33610438576489823752009-10-19T09:18:06.201-04:002009-10-19T09:18:06.201-04:00The waiting truly is, the hardest part. (And yes, it was a terribly cheesy Tom Petty reference, but I digress.) I&#39;m so, so sorry.Tobyehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08192038075681641845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-72832094291801215212009-10-18T09:00:10.788-04:002009-10-18T09:00:10.788-04:00I have no words of comfort or wisdom that I can share with you right now. I have walked this path and had these same thoughts about the loved ones in my life. It is just so dang hard is all I can say. She probably just needs your Dad to tell her he will be OK and it is ok for her to let go. I will keep you in my prayers today!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-71276375227230732862009-10-17T10:59:05.274-04:002009-10-17T10:59:05.274-04:00Just stalked over to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-88094084897971558842009-10-15T06:23:03.230-04:002009-10-15T06:23:03.230-04:00Oh my blogging friend, I will be praying.Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11326484192966920116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-21597339312175604222009-10-14T21:09:04.577-04:002009-10-14T21:09:04.577-04:00Hi Where to begin. Hospice was great when my grandfather was ill. He had cancer. They helped me understand the process. It was still very hard but I had a better grasp on what to expect but I will not lie and say it made it easier because it all hurt like hell. This summer we lost a very close person to our family due to cancer...that was some of the reason I was not online alot during the summer. Children are amazing and honestly I think Andrew will be what gets you through this. <br /><br />There are NO right words to offer right now! I know...anything that I say is just not enough! You will be in my thoughts and prayers! <br /><br />About blogging about this...well for me my blog sometimes is much better than therapy for me..maybe you just needed to purge! <br /><br />Take care and I will be thinking about you and your family!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-77998087923425799822009-10-13T23:56:05.565-04:002009-10-13T23:56:05.565-04:00oh tamara... i am so sorry!<br />death is hard, and it is constantly in my mind. <br />one of my mom&#39;s friend has pancreatic cancer, and is dying. it&#39;s so hard to look at him without wanting to cry, but when i do look at him, it is a reminder that i am still able to make a difference. <br /><br />hang in there, i&#39;ll be praying for you tonight!TeeTeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06588649796087015208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-27108754908044180512009-10-07T22:54:42.919-04:002009-10-07T22:54:42.919-04:00how adorable!TeeTeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06588649796087015208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-73214578851401732742009-10-07T18:25:31.149-04:002009-10-07T18:25:31.149-04:00He was so tired! He is adorable! FOOD LION! We are getting a FOOD LION in a few months!!!!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-18613011159214168512009-10-07T18:00:01.161-04:002009-10-07T18:00:01.161-04:00Oh my word how cute is that!Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11326484192966920116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-80641598837114904152009-10-06T23:03:13.597-04:002009-10-06T23:03:13.597-04:00How is it going up in VA? Recovering from the concert? LOL Just stalked over to say HEY!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-80150031742391404112009-10-05T11:33:13.713-04:002009-10-05T11:33:13.713-04:00looks like you had so much fun!TeeTeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06588649796087015208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-83134194558833929852009-10-04T17:04:02.913-04:002009-10-04T17:04:02.913-04:00Great Pictures! I have a strange confession...<br />HMMM I have never been to a concert! Teen of the 80&#39;s and all...well hmmm! LOL It looks like you guys had a blast!Tamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17424691714634446504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6751182489417068121.post-32151110214391883132009-10-04T14:38:33.895-04:002009-10-04T14:38:33.895-04:00Excellent pictures! It sounds like it you had a great time.Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11326484192966920116noreply@blogger.com